Sympathy for Wild Girls
Demree McGhee
Feminist Press, 2025, 216 pages
$17.95

Reviewed by Grace Gaynor

In Sympathy for Wild Girls, experiences and knowledges associated with Black, queer womanhood are expertly infused into subtly surreal stories. Described as “Confident and poetic” by the Chicago Review of Books, Demree McGhee’s exacting and vibrant debut is a stunning, cohesive meditation on otherness, connection, and identity. Each story encapsulates a world of social systems, tenuous relationships, and underlying dreams and desires. This encapsulation allows the collection to meticulously analyze, synthesize, and dissect social mechanisms and influences. Engaging with the sharply rendered world of Sympathy for Wild Girls is like looking at our own through a magnifying glass—parts that are often ignored or brushed over are made visible and put on display. Throughout the collection, characters fall in and out of belonging, search for safety from hostility, become and transform, and come to terms with their otherworldliness while navigating societal rejection and girlhood’s treacherous terrain.

With stories articulated in multiple registers and encompassing varying degrees of reality, Sympathy for Wild Girls could be defined by its versatility. Stories like “Scratching” interrogate the boundaries surrounding death and life in its focus on grief and love, while stories like “Valerie” investigate the arduous task of unfurling repressed desire. Wry humor and sharp pop culture references intertwine with chilling, devastating meditations on what it means to experience discrimination, evoking the way harm and violence are inherent aspects of every part of marginalized lives.

Sympathy for Wild Girls could also be defined by its deft analysis of the emotions and feelings that influence actions and reactions to being chronically othered. As a result, the collection simmers with the sense of fear that comes with being mistreated and abused in the context of Black womanhood and girlhood. Each narrative is imbued accordingly with a fear of being wrong, replaced, or the recipient of violence. In addition, McGhee’s compelling storytelling and vivid imagery coalesce to create deeply resonant depictions of this fear—characters often change, shrink, hide, disguise, or distance themselves for fear of societal and personal fallout. For instance, narratives like “Thinning” revolve around a fear of seeming out of place or mismatched. In this way, fear as a survival response to trauma and discrimination pulses throughout this book, acting as a foundation for the stories.

For those who must fight to be seen, heard, and understood, who have felt alienated by expectations associated with womanhood and girlhood, who are familiar with the self-loathing and longing that accompany a life lived in the margins, Sympathy for Wild Girls is a collection of stories that will resonate, affirm, and inspire.

Grace Gaynor is a writer from Louisville, Kentucky. She is an assistant poetry editor for Noemi Press, an editorial intern at Electric Literature, a Feminist Press apprentice, and a poetry reader for Bicoastal Review. She studied English and GWS at Hollins University and earned an MFA in creative writing from Virginia Tech.